.....and I honestly didn't realise how 'flat' I would feel.
This last week has been so emotional...... Leavers disco, leavers assembly, and yesterday them all coming out of class with their shirts signed... And the inevitable carrier bags full of all their work.
So it hits me every single summer how alone I feel..... I've been a lone parent since DS was 3 so throughout primary...... Summer hols with a part time income, no money spare to do much, no family and ex living 50 miles away. Everyone it seems is off every single summer on hols and away doing family stuff. But every hol I would take comfort from the familiarity that he was again moving up a year in a small, safe environment that was his primary school...... It was only one class per year so felt 'family like' to me, in the absence of real family!
And now he is venturing onto new territory..... That little safe haven is gone..... The secondary school isn't massive, 5 classes this year for year 7, but huge compared to what he's used to..... All week a lot of us have got emotional but they've all had the support networks around them whereas yet again I'm alone..... His dad hadn't even rang to see how he got on!!!!
Please tell me it gets easier?!! Lol..... My DS is do excited as starting secondary he is one of the oldest in his year so was getting bored and was ready to move on. But I'm finding it so hard that all the kids have been together since they were 4 and now they are splitting up..... Only 2 schools in our area it's been, I'd say, a 40/60 split with 60% going on to the school my son is going too......
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