Hello there,
I hope you don't mind me asking you all for your opinions and please do just hit me with them... I'm feeling really, really miserable and very stuck.
I am a 30 year old working three days a week in central London (It's a relatively new position - started in March) I have a very vibrant, hyper active 21 month old son who I adore and we live in SW London in a little 2 bed flat.
I was single whilst pregnant but when my son was six months I met the man I thought I was going to marry. He moved in last September/October and I was very happy building my new family. However, that relationship has now come to an end. I am absolutely heartbroken, incredibly lonely and just managing to get through each day.
My son is also very unsettled as he was very used to my partner as his father figure.
I have zero family in London. I also have zero support. I noticed how bad this was when he moved out and I had no one to turn to...maybe a handful of friends dotted all over the capital but no one to grab a coffee with etc. It was made all the more poignant when son was taken ill at nursery and I had no one to call to get there quicker than i could. I have no back up.. I can't be the only one in this position?
I don't know what to do now. My ex and I were planning to move out of my little flat and buy a house in Surrey. I don't know if I have the confidence or the finances to do that on my own. I have no contacts or support there either. My own parents are north - 5 hours from London. Do i pack up and head back there? My father is very ill and it seems silly to give up my good job to go back?
I feel confused and lonely..
Sorry for the ramble...!
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Emmiedarling · 15/07/2014 14:48
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