Hi everyone :)
I have just joined mumsnet as I am hoping to find some local activities and some much needed moral support. I have recently become a single mum of an 11 month old (I'm 24) having escaped a violent and abusive relationship. My son's father is now seeking overnight contact even though he has never looked after him for more than a few hours, doesn't know his routine or what to do at night and has been violent to him. I have instructed lawyers but it's so expensive and they're not even very helpful.
I am so scared for my son and am petrified his father will be granted more contact as he is a very smooth talker and is absolutely charming on the surface - no-one ever knew.
Even though I am away my life is controlled my the idea that he will one day flip and hurt my son or decide he wants to take him back to South Africa (where he is from).
I would be really grateful if anyone had any advice/ideas on how to move forward with him on the subject of overnight stays. The lawyers are killing my bank balance.
Thanks in advance :) xx
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Bluebelle89 · 13/07/2014 19:05
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