Just a quick question to see what you all think. My soon to be ex works a 6 week irregular shift pattern. To his credit the main stumbling block in our divorce is that he wants to see our daughter so often. Whenever his shifts suit. Currently we have an arrangement where he picks up daughter 3 nights a week - two of the nights he gives her tea and on the third she stays overnight ( as long as it is the weekend). The nights that he has her are dictated by him and for a while I've been getting the impression that he arranges the contact around his social life, golf and possible overtime in work.
My question is ..... Do you think that it is unreasonable of me to request that I see his shift rota prior to agreeing the dates for contact?
Or is it better to put up and shut up and hope that things calm down a bit in the future!
On another note ( I'm on a roll!) how do you come to terms with not seeing your child when they're at ex partners? My daughter is now away for the week. I've come into work and have arranged a weekend away but I still miss her so much. Will it get better?
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wirral · 04/08/2006 12:32
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