Exp and i have no contact for last few months. He comes to collect dcs on his weekends but we dont talk. No calling or texting. It suits me tbh as before i made the decision to go no contact it was always a case of him ignoring any contact i made and only getting in touch when it suited him.
So he texted at tea time saying "can the boys come to mine tomorrow" . Its not his night but if we had nothing planned i would have said no problem but we are having a party so i texted back "no we are having a party" and then after i sent it i realise that despite him not even saying please or explaining why he wanted them (im guessing something halloween related) i still justified myself to him in my response and the old 'no is a complete sentence' came into my head. Why do i feel the need to do this especially when he didnt in the first place?
Would you have explained in this scenario or would it be ok in future just to say no without telling him my plans that are none of his business?
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YoureBeingAnAnyFuckerFan · 30/10/2013 19:33
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