hi all if any1 doesnt know me plz look at thread lost confused if you can find it ;) as i cant...anyway im so happy got my xchange moved away got a lovely house and a brand new start...BUT....x rang n now wants 2 c ds..i will refresh your memory ok well he has not seen ds since he was 11 weeks old i think i lived in a block and his mother lived underneath me what a life me n my children have had his family made my life hell n put me through some awful things x was verbally abusive to me n alot of threats was made..anyway i got an exchange with a lady n got myself a brand new life a new me..also x has another girl pregnant!! then phone rings its the x begging me to see ds who mind you hasnt seen for almost a year ds 13 months now..he was vey polite says he wants 2 meet me for a chat n 2 sort out visiting ds x never knew his own dad n say he doent want it 2 b that way with ds he wants 2 b a part of his life so that ds has a dad..now the hard part firstly ive moved out of london second 4 me to go to meet him would cost me a bomb i dont work n money is very tight..i know all he has 2 do is ask the lady i did exchange with for my address,also him being around my family as mum dad would hit the roof if he was bk ds life..now i know every child has the right 2 2 parents n i know its up to me but im so confused as to what 2 do as i dont want 2 upset any1 ive 2 teenage girls who agree no matter how x was 2 me he has the right 2 c ds x has never hit me was all verball it will be so very hard for me to take ds to meet him x has a car n im not sure whether 2 give him my adress or not it says its killing him inside not seeing ds n i feel so bad plz help x
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