"It's ok if you have a boyfriend I won't mind"

[farrowandbawl]

What The Actual Fuck?

Ex said this to me a few weeks ago and it's still pissing me off. It's none of his damn business what I do anymore, none.

Why does he think he needs to give me permission to go out and find someone? I don't get it. What am I missing here?

My private life is MINE. I say what I want to do and when, NOT him.

[Alliballi]

How very magnanimous

[Sasquatch75]

Omg when I saw the title, I assumed it was a child saying that about their single parent!

That's hilarious... What a loser. Who does he think he is!!!

[HerrenaHarridan]

You are not alone.

My ex did this too. In a letter threatening me to drop dv charges.
Fucking knobends

[SPsTombRaidingWithCliff]

My ex said thus then when i did get one he fucked it up.

I thought it was a child that had says it when saw title

[fuckerandbawl]

Knob.

I'm so happy that he's on the other side of the planet, I really am. I can't even stand to listen to the pratt talking to the kids over skype.

Thinking about it, this wasn't the first time he said that either...this must be about the 3rd time now. Fucking freak.

How did he fuck it up SP?

[Lonecatwithkitten]

My retort to this kind of statement is 'actual it is none of your business'.

[SPsTombRaidingWithCliff]

He had his mum and brother waiting around to see of fella turned up, messed around with his time to have son so I had no free time, wouldn't bring him back on time so fella I was seeing I had to ask to take me for him before we went away.

Men decide quickly a relationship isn't work this hassle

He knows what he is doing so now he knows nothing. I could be shagging Prince Harry and he would be none the wiser. He questions the toddler bit as the toddler knows nothing je cant find anything out. He and family are also blocked from FB so I cant be FB stalked anymore.

[fuckerandbawl]

Bloody hell SP. That's shit.

I would respond only he's not worth the effort. It's just this one comment that pissed me off.

He knows nothing about my life. Only what the kids let slip and they don't know a lot.

[SPsTombRaidingWithCliff]

I would like to.add that my ex jumped into a relationship with my now ex best friend 5 month after we broke up and is with her on and off!

Yet he still feels he has a right to know ins and out of my life. Its.laughable really.

[fuckerandbawl]

It is laughable.

I'm sorry that you lost your best friend too, the betrayal from one is bad enough but your friend too. I'm sorry.

My ex insists on telling me about his sex life - I don't care. Now he's wondering why I don't say two words to him.

I don't understand why they think they have a right to this information, do they think they still have a claim to us, or still have a hold over us?

[SPsTombRaidingWithCliff]

He has the toddler questioning me so I tell him bullshit stories that are obvious lies.

The ex friend was actually spying on me for the ex

my life isn't even that exciting

[fuckerandbawl]

OMG it gets worse.

SP what did you do about the friend in the end?

[SPsTombRaidingWithCliff]

Blocked and deleted and have nothing to do with her.

I don't care about his life so why she he care about mine?

[fuckerandbawl]

I'm sorry SP, that's one huge crappy thing to go through.

[SPsTombRaidingWithCliff]

I really don't care anymore. Its been 2 year nearly since he fucked off.

I just want to be able to have a life/relationship without him been an arse about it.

[bluebeardsbabe]

My ex told me I looked good and should start dating. He then told me he'd babysit so I could go out on the pull and have a shag. Er...no! Nob!

[bluebeardsbabe]

Just because he was able to shag someone while I was pregnant doesn't mean I want to bring home random men and shag in the vicinity of dd. I'd rather go without sex. although obviously don't want him to know that:)

[XanetiaOfTheDelphae]

Oh that's big of him (sarcasm alert). Twat (him, not you).

[HankEpankie]

Oh how very reasonable of him ............what a dick lovely guy..

He's just trying to beat his little chest and show you who's in control has naff all to do with him so he should really stfu

And I can bet my favourite lipstick if you actually did start seeing someone who just happened to be hotter/more hair/more teeth he would lose his tiny little mind