Sadly not mine but ex-H's.
Brief summary: divorced 8 years ago. He is well off but very tight, would not settle via mediation, so had to take him to court. We have a court agreement on maintenance, which is of course 8 years out of date.
His salary has risen significantly & he receives an annual bonus (I have proof - best not to ask how, as it isn't an honourable tale). He has also received a sizeable inheritance in the last 12 months. DS & DD have not benefited in any way from this improvement to his financial situation. He hardly sees them - his choice. However, I don't want to look back & think that they missed out financially because I was scared of him.
I'm thinking of going to the CSA, but I'm a bit nervous about it. I hinted at this to ex-H and he had a complete fit and said he'd fight me every step of the way. [sigh]
So, please can you tell me how the CSA do what they do.
Do they just phone up and ask what ex-H earns?
Do they seek proof?
Do they take bonuses & inheritance into consideration?
If ex-H does "fight me all the way" - is it me he is fighting or the CSA?
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PostBellumBugsy · 12/09/2013 10:19
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