I don't know what to do anymore, I'm sorry I keep pouring my heart and sorry its long
For those who once read my posts know that the Father of my baby left me when I told him I was pregnant, I tried to beg, curse, shout, ask pple he respects to talk to him but he wouldn't budge until I decided to leave him alone, but now my problem is that in my country every were I go they need the father's signature for various thngs. Like booking a delivery bed mother and Father need to sign, applying for birth certificate, ID and passport.
So I explained that the father is not interested and they said in that case he needs to sign a form declaring that only my signature and surname can be used on the child and that he wants nothing to do with child now or in future (kinda giving up his parental rights) and that way it will also be prove to the child that the father never wanted a relationship with him and maybe he won't go through the trouble of looking for him when he is older.
I told the father about this over a message thinking he would be happy to sign him away since he said he wants nothing to do with my son but he didn't reply I left numerous messages explaining that this would be the last he hears from me all he has to do is sign then he will pretend like normal as if there was never a baby but he still won't respond or sign. Why is he doing this to me? Refuse the child and refuse to fully give up his rights because surely he doesn't want his name on the birth certificate or my son to use his surname, why won't he sign I just don't understand its depressing me now coz the only way is to get a random stranger to sign away his rights for him and that will complicate things in future if its not his signature.
How on earth am I having this man's baby? Wouldn't signing away his rights help him from future child support and help him never be contacted again?
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He doesnt want the child but he wont sign him away...WHY?
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buthow · 05/08/2013 06:33
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