DS is 11 months, I have been living with my parents so far, but will be moving out soon. I have enough saved to pay a large chunk outright myself, and my parents have agreed to lend me 20k, so I have arranged a viewing at a small flat.
The problem is, my dad will be retiring next April, and moving back to his hometown, which is a lovely, child friendly, very low crime/drug area, and this is where the flat is. We currently live on the outskirts of a fairly rough area, which I would have to move completely into to afford anywhere close to as cheap and the flat I'm going to view.
I definitely wouldn't want to stay living in this area, I don't think it's a nice place for DS to grow up and I would especially be worried about its influence once he's a teenager, but the place I'm wanting to move to is about 2 hours 15 mins away from DS's dad.
DS's dad currently lives 25 minutes from me, he had sporadic contact to start, and is still supervised by me due to DS getting very distressed during meet ups, and Ex loosing his temper/acting dangerously with him regularly. He sees DS 3 hours once per week, for the past 7 weeks, but he refuses any more contact as he says he doesn't have time.
I can't imagine him reacting well, he is still very controlling, where do I stand regards being able to move, and contact/travelling etc after?
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AmberLovesRoses · 07/07/2013 21:31
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