Hello all you fine ladies.
My ex and I split up 8 years ago this coming August instigated by me when our son was only 5 months. He kept trying it on intermittently over the years until finally he met a woman when our son was c 5 years old I was so relieved. They had a baby together and have split up since. Their son is nearly 2.
Anyway I have not found anybody suitable to take on as a permanent or serious option as a boyfriend until recently. We have always had a communication where we might disclose if we are seeing somebody. This guy is very eligible and I could very easily get serious with him (educated to Phd decent job and owns a number of properties) we did go out briefly 2 1/2 years ago but it didn't work out as he was a workaholic then. He found me again on facebook when he got sick he is recuperating in Scotland but will move back nearer to where I live in the coming months. He would like to get back with me and see how things go.
I happened to blurt this out to the ex and lo and behold the end of May half term has been cut from its usual 6 days to now a pathetic 2 and a half days I have reason to believe he has done this deliberately to spite me and prevent me from dating or going away to visit this nice guy.....!
Has anybody else had their ex play up like this? Any suggestions?
I assume I shouldn't breathe a word of this to the nice man or it may put him off I can just say he has too much work on even though I do not like lying - and as for the ex I won't disclose anything about men in the future and I have sworn my son to secrecy too which I know he can do as he is 8 now.....!
Exes blimey they are definitely sent to try us aren't they! Grateful for any opinions/suggestions/experiences on the matter.
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equinox · 18/04/2013 06:27
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