Hi all.
Recently became a single Dad, sadly, but at least one silver lining is that me and XW are doing 50-50 with our DD, which is good as it would have torn me apart to do alternate weekends thing (These arrangements are circumstantial I know, but me and DD have a really strong bond so deserve 50-50 is best for all of us).
She is only two, and still breast fed, so at the moment We're managing 50% in terms of days but it may be a bit of a wait until I can have her more than one night in a row. I don't want to become the 'lesser' parent in her life - she is the most important thing and although it will require hard work and sacrifices, both me and XW will be co-parenting no matter what. But I was wondering what to do to ensure we maintain the bond we have. She is having some trouble adjusting (I had to move out) but hopefully that will pass and she will stay close to me as she always has. But I was thinking of doing something like a memory book - I could fill it in each time we've been together with a short description of what we've done that day, add photos also and when she's old enough she can help me, just to show that I was always around.
I just want to avoid it being a case of 'I'm at my Dad's' but rather that she feels she has two homes, IYSWIM?
Any tips and/or reassurance appreciated. Thanks for reading through!
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ComeOnBeANoOne · 25/03/2013 22:17
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