Well am early days into the breakup of a 14 year relationship with two kids aged 5 and 7.
Horrific arguments with DP this morning. Now something new and hideous to deal with as if there isn't enough already...
DP want contact every other weekend, which I am fine with.
But, he is staying with him mum who is a chain smoker. My chest hurts after about an hour in that house let alone over night and I am an adult.
DP is adamanet that he wants contact at MIL's house where he is staying.
I have offered to get out of this house for the whole weekend when he has contact so it can take please here and avoid them being exposed to all the smoke, but has has refused.
Should I let this one go or refuse him contact until he finds a place? That will make the situation explode though.
A big part of the arguments leading up to this what that he refuses to take an equal share of time off work when the kids are poorly. What happens if they end up getting coughs evey other weekend and missing time off school which I will have to cover by missing work. I have a precious term time only job which is the saving grace of this situation.
What should I do!!!
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ilovehugs · 17/03/2013 12:41
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