Hi all, well its been a week since i told "dp" to leave after 3 years of hell. Since we had our ds who is now 21months dp has been in and out in and out in and out of our lifes, he has been abusive towards me in the past but at the end of january he punched through the tv infront of our ds because ds was awake jumping on bed at 4.30am and he got pissed off about how much sleep he didnt get even thought he had to get up in 30mins anyway and didnt come to bed untill 2am because he been on his sodding xbox anyway i told him to leave and he went....
A week and abit has gone by and all he has done is sent me a message on xbox saying "when can i see ds?" so i replied if you think you can sit on your arse and message me on your xbox when can you see ds the answer is never my son deserves better than a twat like you since then ive heard nothing from him, he is back on sodding facebook talking to his ex from years ago!!!
I hate him for breaking my heart and doing it over and over but i still hope he will come knocking and say he loves me.....feel torn........
I feel now that he shouldnt have acess to my son as everytime he has walked he hasnt bothered with him at all, why should i let him near my baby when all he does is shout, break things and abuse me??
At the moment he hasnt come around or tried to see him but what should i have in place as a precaution.....i thought about taking parental responsibilitys off him because then he carnt take my son and not return him because he is a bastard like that... and because of the domestic violence i think i can do it....
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MySonIsMyWorld · 15/02/2013 21:18
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