I left my partner of 6 years 3 weeks ago. We have a DD who is just 3.
DP (ex?) is a good guy, good dad, goes to work, not abusive etc.
I can honestly say, I have just fallen out of love. I can't help thinking there is somebody with more interests and similarities to me that I would be happy with.
I have felt like this for years on and off, then DD came along things picked up, and then reverted.
If I was on my own I would be gone, but my daughter is heart broken, when she is with me, she asks and wants her dad, when she is with him vice versa.
We are living with my sister, as DP literally has know where to go, and we won't be able to afford separate smaller places until the lease is up on our rented house. Which Is only two months away.
DD is confused about where to call home, and just wants us both in the same house.
Last night she wet the bed, which she has never done, it could of been an accident, but I can't help thinking its more than that.
Should I go home and just get on with it, be with him, we get on fine, I'm just not crazy about him?
Should I go back until the lease is up and DD and me can get our own place, that is truly her home, but possible confusing her by going back.
Or should I stay away now I have done it, and just help her adjust?
Please help, feel like I have ruined DDs life :(
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Please tell me honestly what I should do. Breaking my daughters heart at the moment, and not sure if it's worth it..
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IfItDontFeelGoodWhatUDoingIt4 · 05/02/2013 10:33
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