Just wondered if anybody could please offer me some advice.
I have a 2 yr old DS and am in the process of separating from DP. Basically I'm not sure the best way to organise access at least in DS's early years. I intend to move to a different part of the country (not for DV reasons, just for a fresh start, cheaper property etc), around a 3 hour drive away, but am anxious to keep things OK for DS.
If you have young DC and live a longish way from your ExP, how do you arrange things? Is it weekend visits every week? Once a month? Do they come to you if the child/ren are young, to make it easier on them? I'm not sure we'll be amicable enough for ExDP to stay over but maybe I need to get real, and this would be the best option. If it's for the best, I will of course do this.
Am worried that if he's not seeing his dad every day, it's unlikely he'll want to go and stay overnight with him on his own, on top of a long car drive etc etc, at least while he's small.
I know everyone's situation is different, but I have no idea what is 'normal' access for such a young kid when a fair distance is involved.
I'm just trying to get ahead and informed. thanks so much for any advice.
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GingerBeer1234 · 30/01/2013 11:50
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