EXP is a total arse
but I've never said a bad word against him in front of the DCs but 11yo DD is starting to have problems with him
at the weekend he wanted to take them out for McDonalds, dd2 happy to go, dd1 not hungry and said no thank you (according to her, she may well have been whiney, I wasn't there, I don't know but this is the version according to her)
so he said -your bloody ungrateful, you get nothing
she said fine as she wasn't hungry -it was about 4pm, 2 hours before the usual meal time
he took DD2 out and left DD1 with her grandparents
then thought he would appease her by asking her sister what cake she liked, dd2 told him one that she liked but her DD1 doesn't
EXP took cake home, DD1 told him she didn't like them
I get a text asking me if she liked the cake, I said I'd never seen her eat one
I then got a text about an hour later saying she had decided to eat it (why he texts me when it's his contact weekend is beyond me)
dd has now told me that he ranted at her for saying no, calling her a spoilt ungrateful little girl so she ate it so he stopped having a go at her
he then barely spoke to her for the rest of the evening so she went and spent time with her grandparents
the way to handle him is to do everything he says without question -I did that for years, didn't do myself any favours
her not having contact with him is not an option and she generally looks forward to going to see him so I wouldn't want to stop contact on a one off argument anyway
she doesn't want me to talk to him as she feels he won't listen
what do I do?
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sausagesandwich34 · 28/01/2013 21:47
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