DD is currently seeing a paediatrician for assessment with various issues including sensory processing, joint pains and low weight.
Her dad (my ex) regularly makes false allegations to social services that dd is at risk from me. They investigated in the summer and were happy with my care of her and her health and closed the case. However, he made a formal complaint to them based on a piece of information not being collected in the correct way and has demanded a re-investigation.
My question is - do I need to contact him with details of our appointments and the findings of the paediatrician? I don't want to leave myself open to yet more allegations of being negligent by not keeing him informed.
Is it my legal responsibility to keep him updated? The paediatrician said she could write to him if I wanted, but I am reluctant to share more info than I need to, as every time he gets any info he tries to turn it against me and use it to make another allegation.
I did just email him 2 pieces of advice about diet and sensory issues, and got a snotty reply saying that they were already doing the right things for dd at his house and he already has the book about sensory issues and wanted to know what I was doing about it here.
Anyone know how much info I am obliged to give? He makes no attempt to co-operate or co-parent with me, only to dig for information which he then uses to try and portray me as an unfit mother to people he considers an authority, so I would like to limit my communication with him as much as possible.
DD is not receiving any treatment yet btw, we are still at the investigating stages and waiting for referrals to the appropriate health departments.
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hodgehegs · 27/01/2013 00:15
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