ExP and I broke up over 3 years ago, have a DS 2.6. He only started seeing him about 6 months ago due to him not really being interested when DS was a baby.
Throughout this 3 year period ExP has swung between emotional abuse and begging me to take him back/declaring love for me.
I have recently met someone (very very recent and not at all serious yet). New guy has obviously not met DS. ExP was here to drop off one of DSs toys yesterday, and it turns out he picked up my phone and read all my texts while pretending to use the bathroom. So he knows about the new guy. He admitted all this today, and went into a rant about how if any man ever disciplined or upset his son he would make sure they went missing.
I freaked out a little when he said that, I dont know if he could/would do something so serious and horrendous as that but it is a pretty big threat. I am beginning to wonder if he is ever going to let me move on and be with someone else. I am more than ready to be involved with someone, I hope to get married someday and have more kids but I dont want him to make it so difficult for me.
Im kind of hoping everyone comes on here and tells me their ex was like that at first but then accepted it!? I dont want to live my whole life with him right in the middle of everything but he seems determined to get involved and make threats all the time.
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HeartShapedSaw · 21/01/2013 19:23
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