hi all. my dh and i have been living in london for almost 10 years. we are both foreigners who came to study here, then we met, fell in love, had two kids, and here we are :-)
we have idle talk of leaving london at some point. something we both wanted, to different degrees. now things have suddenly accelerated as my dh got an offer to work in ZUrich and he is extremely tempted to accept. i have always said if that happened i'd be supportive and i genuinely do think switzerland is better for our family as a whole.
however, i am not really sure where that leaves ME! i think i could find a job there, but of course there is no guarantee and there is no gtee i will like it. while i dont have such a stellar career here and neither i want to, i genuinely love my job and i think i am very good at it. unlikely that i would be able to continue in the same field.
and while i think i should be a sahm for a while (apart from everything dd2 is only 2 months!) to make sure we all settle well etc, i really really dont want to be a sahm forever. and in my field being out for more than a year means professional suicide.
so- i dont know. i always though as a woman i should put my family first and my prof life second, but i am so scared i will end up hating my life and resenting dh for it.
any experience or advice gratefully received...
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beforesunrise · 17/07/2008 08:03
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