He's been diagnosed with a 5cm tumour is the sigmoid colon which the GI consultant thinks is malignant and will need both surgery and chemo.
DH and I have been battling secondary infertility for nearly 3 years. We had 3 IVF cycles between May 13 and May 14 which ended in m/cs in Dec 13 and May 14. The whole year was hard.
In 2012, I had a m/c then my mum was diagnosed with cancer then DH had an op which caused a DVT. My mum's treatment has only recently been completed.
Our dog (loved by all) died in January.
I feel that I must now be a drain and that people will start to avoid me because I never have anything good or positive to say. Negativity is very wearing if you're on the receiving end. So, I don't want to tell until I have to. Is that weird?
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Is it weird that I don't want to tell friends about DH's diagnosis?
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resipsa · 26/06/2014 14:21
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