My mum has terminal cancer in four different parts of her body. She was given a base of two years which would of been late 2010, and is still here. receiving palliative care, chemotherapy to control rather than cure.
I just cant get my head around it, i spend 6/7 days there normally even if its just 9-2 while the children are at school then on the weekends take them to see her. She has been doing ok but this last week she seems like shes not here. barely with it when we speak dozy and like she cant focus, snappy and irritable and generally like she has given up. I am the person who deals with problems and stay with her while shes ill but i feel so overwhelmed. I dont know if its a blip and she will improve or if this is the beginning of the end. Ds is upset and clingy, he is a worrier.
Grandparents arent coping with her being ill, they are fairly active still drive ect but nan visits once a week, and only pops in if need to bring medication. I dont think they can cope with her being ill but shes so sad, feels like everyone is just carrying on with their lives and leaving her. I dont know what to do :( dont know what to think or say :( thanks for letting me vent.
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Life-limiting illness
Feel so overwhelmed
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Waitingforastartofall · 15/10/2012 21:21
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