DD very, very often refers to herself as a boy (i'm a big boy, I'll be a daddy when I'm big, etc). sometimes she says she's just pretending & says she's a girl, other times she is more insistent. DH & I just tell her that it's ok & we love her whether she's a boy or a girl.
she has a younger brother who is 20mo but I don't think there's any sort of jealousy of him that would cause her to think it's preferable to be a boy.
I'm just wondering how accurate her gender identity could be at this age (i've read that it starts to develop around this age) & how to proceed. I'm guessing we should just wait & see how things evolve.
are there any age-appropriate books that might be useful to introduce?
any other suggestions?
thanks.
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3yo DD says she's a boy
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eversomuch · 09/07/2014 20:33
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