My Dd (11) told me a few days ago that she has "feelings" for a new friend at school and thinks she fancies her, and wonders what it might be like to kiss her. She's been aware of these feelings for some time, but says she woke up one morning and thought "omg I'm a lesbian!!" She is extremely upset and frightened by all this, crying, worrying, scared cos she doesn't want to be a lesbian because of how it might change her life. I hugged her for ages, told her I loved her no matter what and we talked. BUT it seems she's totally confused, she says she THINKS she wonders what it would be like to kiss girls, but nothing more. It may be worth mentioning she isn't really interested in boys but that's no surprise as she's a fairly "young" 11, but my biggest worry is that she is now talking about self harm as she wants to be like the other girls, discussing who they fancy etc but won't be able to and can't bear it. Essentially, she wants to be able to tell if she is gay or its just puberty and a girl crush or hormones gone crazy!! Help, don't know what to do to help her. So sad.
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DD "worried" she might be a lesbian and hates it!!
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NinaNetball · 30/01/2013 18:09
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