Hi everyone. I am new to this website and looking for some help. I hope I have placed this correctly.
My ex wife and I have shared care of our daughters, 9 & 4.
My concerns are
My ex wife and her new husband (2013) have been involved in fights. I had a telephone call from my ex wifes neighbour/ girls childminder to ask me to come and collect the girls as there had been a fight between my ex wife and husband. When I arrived there were police present, an officer came to talk to me about girls and said I would take them. I never found out what the real details were but my ex wife came to collect children 2 days later, apologised and said it was over missing money but it had been dealt with. She chatted with the girls and told them it would never happen again.
Since then I have had talks with our eldest girl and she has said mum hits her husband when she is moody then they both fight with each other, hitting, pushing and there is a lot of shouting. She has said she gets upset and scared and our youngest girl cries all the time. Every week there will be other events that has happened between them.
I am concerned this is turning into Domestic Violence and that our girls are seeing this. I do not know what to do.
I have many people tell me to contact Children's Services while the girls are in my care and not to return the girls to the home but I am very unsure what to do.
Could anyone give me advice on the matter please?
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JohnT · 22/07/2014 23:23
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