I wonder if anyone can help me? I've name changed for privacy.
My step daughter (aged 7) arrived here yesterday afternoon and told me her Mother had hit her hard across the back that morning. My husband got home from work at I told him and he spoke to step daughter about it. Shee had been hit across the back and there were 3 red adult hand sized finger marks (albeit faint but noticeable) where she said she had hit her.
We called Police, they came out and took statement, they saw the finger marks and they spoke to step daughter who confirmed again what had happened. She has a good vocabulary, was quite capable of explaining what happened clearly and concisely.
Social worker and Police turned up unexpected at our door yesterday afternoon (about 30 hrs after it happened) and want to speak to her. They chat to her for around half hour and leave. They didn't tell me what she said but before they left they asked me to confirm when she was due to go back to her Mother (Thursday) and that her Mother doesn't have any other kids that are currently in her care. They said they would be in touch before Thursday.
We understand it's a relatively minor injury, the mark had gone by the time the Social Worker looked, but we have photos from yesterday afternoon and the Police saw. But it's obviously not right to hit a child across the back so hard that your finger marks can be seen 8 hours later!
Something isn't right with her mum. She's been increasingly complaining about being smacked a lot, her mum is angry and step daughter says she cries a lot. She tells her all her problems and makes her feel guilty and worry about them (money, being lonely etc) She's only 7! She said she's been shouting more, swearing and her too. Step daughter has been stopped attending her out of school hobby which she loves, her mum and started working part time instead of full time and she seems unable to get up and get her to school on time, sends her to school when she has been sick, doesn't engage with school much, refuses to do any homework etc despite repeated letters and meetings with the headteacher. She's had serious MH problems before, attempted suicide, severe depression etc (all documented and spanning a number of years) and my husband feels she could be heading that way again (from what he knows of her).
What do we do? Are we allowed to just keep her here until the Police and Child Services get back to us as it will breach the Court Order. Honestly, we don't have £200 spare to make the application to Court that I assume we should really make in order to get what I believe is an Interim Order but if it's essential then we would have to find the money.
Husband doesn't want to take daughter away from her mum, just take steps to keep step daughter safe whilst her mum is encouraged to get help.
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ConfusionAndDelay · 21/07/2014 21:46
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