Hi all. I'm not sure if this is the right place to post the following, but I'm in desperate need for advice or help.
Bit of my story : My dd was born small, gained weight (EFB) well. MW and HV were happy at her progress. Bit of a problem around 9 weeks with BF, went to GP, told to FF, no other help, referral etc. Went off to BF support in my area, every week (self referred) saw HVs who attended that who all said DD was fine, all fair and dandy. Then we had a major family bereavement. Milk supply dropped like a stone, I didn't know this at the time. DD went off to be weighed last week at clinic to be found underweight, we were sent into the paed dept at the local hospital in case there was any underlying medical conditions.
Explained all our history (trouble at 9 wks, bereavement etc) She was weighed there, told to top her up with formula, then told to bring her back in two days to have her weighed (told then that as long as she'd gained, there would be no problem). Took her back, she'd gained 40g, then we were told by the same person that saw us earlier in the week that it wasn't enough of a gain and we need to bring her back on Monday (today). We were told on Friday that Monday would just be a weigh and if she's gained more, then we would be handed back to the HV team. Essentially told that it was likely to be a supply issue.
It's about a 50 mile round trip, and we have a 4 year old DS, so DH called hospital to say can we just have her weighed at out GP practice. Told that someone would call him back. Ended up it was a child protection officer that called him back, saying that we have refused HV team, and that we've refused her to be weighed, if we don't take her this afternoon. She also said that DD would be examined by a paediatrician at the appt this afternoon, something we were not told on Friday (otherwise we wouldn't have tried to cancel what we thought was essentially a weight only appt)
Am in massive floods of tears now, thinking that they're going to come round and take her off of us. She's only 18 weeks old, and such a happy little thing. I really don't know what to do. Obviously, we're keen to take her in to have her (hopefully) 'signed' off by a paediatrician. I feel physically sick, and don't know how we stand here.
Anyone got any help or advice on this?
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helpindeed · 21/07/2014 11:42
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