Firstly, I'm a newbie, so sorry if I have posted in the wrong place.
I was molested from the age of 8 through to 15-16 by my Step-step Grandfather. I am 24 now and finally reported it to the police. I have been googling like crazy to try and find out more about the procedure, how they will come to a decision regarding taking him to court, what happens if he doesn't go to court, what questions the defense will ask if it does go to court... I haven't made contact in over 6 years, and am worried that because it was so long ago and there is no hard medical evidence, just a mental health disorder that I have 'aquired' I believe as a result of the abuse... I'm so anxious about what's going to happen :/ they said they would contact me later this week when he has been arrested and questioned. It's doing my nut in! All going around and round in my head. Has anyone else done this? Were you successful? How did you feel? What helped you cope at 10pm? 1am... 4am...? What happens if he says he did it, what happens if not, what will they base their decision to go to court on? How long does it all take??
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alenafrances · 09/09/2013 22:32
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