Brief explanation: Ex did one when I was pregnant 13 years ago. Has now decided he wants contact. I've tried being civil explaining it needs to go via children's pace as they do not and haven't ever met. The only contact made with DT1 was when he called her a spoilt bitch (whole other post on this). I've had, to be blunt a fuck full. I've had his wife on the phone last night at gone 11 telling me that I'm selfish and damaging her baby's relationship with my two because I'm excluding their dad. I'm not - I just want it introduced.
He is intending on relocating back over here because apparently being near family is really important. He now wants to do mediation. How does this work? I do not want to be in the same room as him. He's vile and abusive. He now informs me his parents have also given my home address and if I don't agree to let him see the children then he will know where to find them.
I'm a nervous wreck. It is actually affecting my marriage because of the stress. People whom I relied on and who I trusted heart and soul with my children, who I thought understood where I was coming from with wanting the slow approach have stabbed me in the back.
This is just one big mess and I don't know how to get out of it - other than having to fork out money I cannot afford for a solicitor.
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Help I'm at my wits end - mediation?
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TakingTimeOut · 04/06/2013 09:35
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