Hi. I have been with my partner for 7 months and living together for a couple of months. I have got 2 kids and they get on really great with my partner. He has 3 kids and I've still not met them as their mum refuses to let me. I have been on the receiving end of constant harrassment from her since I started going out with my partner. She has tried to split us up numerous times but failed. Anyway she kept pulling contact for my partner so he took it to court. We kept saying that once he had the contact order we would introduce me to the kids who are begging to meet me.
Anyway we were in court last week and my partner got contact of 2 weekends out of 3 which is brilliant. But I am not allowed to meet the kids. His ex has made allegations that I am an alcoholic, on anti depressants, attempted suicide on numerous occassions, have mental health issues and have a personality disorder. I have none of these and have never been on anti depressants and I don't drink lol!! Anyway the court have now adjourned the case until April and I have to file a medical letter from my gp and also have police and safeguarding checks. I work with kids and have a full enhanced crb check so I'm not worried that one bit. The thing is that I was off work from sep 12 till dec 12 with stress due to her harrassment and this only stopped in dec because I issued an harrassment notice on her. Do you think this will go against me??? At the moment my partner has to move to his parents 2 weekends out of 3 fri to mon to have the kids and this is awkward for him as 4 of them are sharing a 9ft square bedroom with 1 single bed and 2 foam matteresses. He has 2 girls 9 and 5 and a lad 12 who all sleep in the same room. If this gets adjurned or I am refused contact at the next hearing this will be a disaster as I am a nice person with no problems apart from my partner has a jealous ex.
Any advice would be great.
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Colly121976 · 23/02/2013 18:49
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