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I'm new to mumsnet and was just looking for some information and anything would be appreciated!
My partner and I have an extremely good and happy relationship ourselves, but unfortunately his mother is someone we do not want in our child's life. I won't give the long winded version but the short of it is that she likes to create trouble (particularly within our relationship) using ANY means.
My partner and his mother recently stopped talking after he'd had enough of his mother's ways and he has no plans to reconcile whatsoever after her manipulative, honestly insane ways towards him just got too much and after she relentlessly tries to cause trouble in our relationship, she also directly insults me (to me as well as to him), directly insults him (to him as well as to me), lies, tells me how much my partner is not interested in me and will get bored as our relationship is a waste of time and meaningless he will find someone else etc, tries to break us up, blames everything she doesn't like to do with my partner on me, makes things up about our relationship to try and meddle, as well as trying to turn the rest of his family against him. Just to say, she had been this way before i was in his life but it has got progressively way worse since I've been around because it is very clear she just doesn't like me and doesn't want to regardless of every effort being made on my part to be polite and nice even when she is being disgustingly rude and nasty. She tries every angle and is extremely needy to try and convince my partner he should be friendly to her again but he has told her on numerous occasions he doesn't want a relationship with her - I had even tried to go to see her off my own back to see if we could find a way for them to reconcile as i didn't want him to not have a relationship with his mother if we could help it but to no avail as she was the same old way she always is so it just didn't work even after me sitting there taking all her usual crap - she was extremely rude on that occasion, even more so because her partner wasn't around so she obviously felt she could say anything to me with no proof of her saying it afterwards to try (again) to twist things to make me look like the nasty one.
We recently had a child and neither of us want her involved in their life whatsoever (they have been born since we stopped contact with her) because we wouldn't like her to try and do the same and have toxic effects on our child, or our relationship by being in our lives at all. The last thing we want is her talking crap about us to our child like she has tried to both of us or trying to negatively impact our child and our relationship. This is something that is highly likely she would do, this is no exaggeration - she will try anything and it is something we are genuinely concerned about.
We have a feeling she will try and take us to court, do we have a case because she causes trouble in our relationship and because we don't talk to her or is it likely we will have no say on this?
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Rachaelkiss · 03/02/2013 15:04
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