what will his solicitor say

[pinkkoala]

have prev post on legal.
but this is different query.
my sol has already sent two ltrs to h regarding his behaviour towards me and also concerning divorce.
i have gone for half equity and residency of dd with him having reg contact, she suggested more equity. i have also said we keep our own pensions.
he now wants to cause me as much pain as he can and is getting sols to say i am unfit mum, which i am not, say he wants to to make go of marriage, which i dont.
and try to have residency of dd, i have always and still am main carer, he got made redundant and isnt working so he does school run, i work part time during school hrs, we only have one car. he is going for main carer we think.
with all those queries what do you think his sol will advise him.
do i need to get in a panic.
i wanted to divorce as amicable as poss, bet it isnt ever easy.

[3xcookedchips]

Why do you feel the need to apply for residency? Has some one advised it and what were their reasons? Can you not agree to parent your child in a coooerative fashion? If you're heading to court you will need to go to mediation first where these issues/questions will come up.

[pinkkoala]

my sols has referred us to mediation, he has refused point blank to go.
think his sol will suggest mediation as well.
if he moved out he would have to go to his parents on a temp basis, he has no job, no income and isnt claiming jobseekers. his parents are elderky and in poor health and living in a two bed sheltered housing bungalow so it wouldnt be possible for him to have her overnight, hence me going for residency, also he has done some awful things in fqpont of her when i have been at work, eg smashing plates in the garden after losing hs temper.
he also would not be able to provide any financial support to her at the monent.

[pinkkoala]

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