Just looking for some advice, not necessarily legal but if anyone knows that side of things, their input would be great too!
My son is 8 months, ex and I split up when I was pregnant
With regards to contact currently ex has DS every weds for the afternoon and one day every weekend. He is changing jobs and tells me wont be able to do the midweek contact, therefore wants more contact at weekends. He says if I don't agree both days every weekend he threatens with court.
We have attended mediation to get where we are today and thought we was finally communicating reasonably well.
I have older school aged children from a previous relationship so although I do have DS all week if I plan to visit family, days out etc, always done with my children on a weekend. I therefore am reluctant to agree to both days every weekend...
Ex cant do overnights as has nowhere suitable to stay and the contact he is wanting would mean my children would only see their brother for a couple of hours every weekday evening. Never having a full day with all my children together except for school holidays.
I am stuck as to what to come up with for a solution? I think both days every other weekend would be ok if DS was older but at 8 months I think going a fortnight without seeing his Dad is too long... and ex wouldn't agree to this anyway.
Is there an obvious solution that I'm just not seeing? Or am I being selfish and not being fair on ex to not agree to both Sat + Sun each weekend?
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Sienna2012 · 22/04/2012 01:47
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