Hello.... I am relatively new to this but wondering if anyone can offer any advice. My partner and I both have 2 children from previous relationships. We are living together with my DC. His children visit at weekends and when ever they want to pop for tea etc, and are very much part of our family. My problem is our financial situation. We are struggling to keep our heads above the overdraft limit, my partner is a self employed carpenter and I work part time in an office. His ex partner lives in their house, and is not ready to move on, sell the property etc. There is a reasonable amount of equity in the house. He pays £340 in maintenance for his two boys on a private agreement. His income is low and he can only pay £500 towards the household bills/rent etc. My ex husband gives me £200 per month for my children, again on a private agreement. I want to discuss the possibility of going to the CSA for both my maintenance and his. It is a conversation I have tried to have before and it always ends in argument. He said we could reduce the amount we give to his children but he is frightened of possible friction, they have an amicable relationship atm. I am wondering if anyone is in the same situation or similar and can offer any advice. It is on my mind a lot because we can't afford the bills....
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