Ex requested every other weekend when he first walked out. I of course said yes, actually I said 'is that all you want?' Anyway he fails to turn up and has never stuck to every other weekend as he is too busy getting pissed with OW. He then put in contact order to get what I had already agreed to because I wanted DS to carrying on going to his activities in particular swimming as the sea is at the end of my road and I want him to learn to swim plus it is not forever as once he can swim that's it. I backed down on the football though but he still went ahead and paid the £200 for contact order.
Anyway he sent me his next lots of dates up until October a couple of days ago and they aren't every other weekend either as he has put that on some of his weekends he can't have him. No explanation just 'not having him you are'. Now am I the only one to think that if he is taking me to court for every other weekend which I have already agreed to, but he doesn't stick to, that he is going to look a plonker in court??
Will the judge look at his emails to me where it shows he doesn't want him for some of his weekends and that when I have offered alternatives so DS still gets to see him that he has turned them down saying he has plans?
What can I expect in court?
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well I have court hearing date....
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Happylander · 16/03/2012 15:23
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