Im at the end of a 5 month custody battle with my ex. He wants joint custody and extra time in the week. He already gets every other weekend, half school hols and half terms.I have my reasons not to agree with any more contact
we have all had our cafcass interviews. My ds plainly said he did not want contact to increase he liked it the way it was but if pushed he would bear one extra day in week "but definitely not two" He is 9 and very intelligent and articulate.
The cafcass officer told me immediately after he had interviewed my ds what he said and said he agreed with his views and that things should stay the same and that shared residency would not work in this case,<br />
I have now just read his report and he the matter of shared residancy is as he told me but he now appears to have changed his mind about contact. He has completely ignored my sons wishes and feelings and has decided that every other week one extra day wold be best increasing up to two....
Im totally shocked that he seems to be putting my xs wishes and feelings above my sons.
Im about to file my last and final witness statement for the final hearing (2 days early part of next week)
Does this mean the judge will go along with all his recommendations. One extra day would have been more bearable for my son but two...!!!!
would really appreciate anyones views on my situation as I feel very depressed about my sons wishes not having been taken on board.
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strongandfocused · 16/03/2012 10:01
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