Me and my soon to be ex husband share a mortgage. We split 18 months ago and instead of maintainance we decided that he would pay his half of the mortgage instead.
He lives with his new gf in a big 4 bed house around the corner and has now said because of change in his wage he can no longer afford his half of the mortgage. It was roughly £50 a week now he says he can pay £20 we have 3 children the oldest not being his.
Iv contacted csa.
Anyway Im out of work so get help with my half. We have interest only so I get all of that paid. My mortgage company have now said the interest only plan has come to an end and capital now has to be paid so thats an extra £50 a week.
He still refuses to pay so dwp are gonna pay almost all of his half of the interest also for me. Im still left with about 3275 a month to find. I dont have it unless I find a very well paid job. Im looking, but then I wont receive any help from the dwp so will have to find £620 on my own. He will be paying nothing but how does that work when the house has to sell when my youngest is 16? It isnt fair?
I cant have his name taken off as its too high for me to take on myself.
Has anybody been in the same position as me? Or know where I stand?
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gems77 · 14/03/2012 11:43
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