Social Services Viability Assessments

[Pinguu]

We are waiting for independant social workers (as directed by the court) to contact us regarding a viability assessment. We have two young children of our own but are being assessed as carers for my husbands 10 year old daughter from a previous relationship as her mother has been found unfit by the courts and is not to return to her care. The child in question is in foster care currently and will remain there if we are unsuccessful.
Just wondered what happens with the viability assessment in detail please, what medical records are checked/police records etc and what could possibly go against us? We have never had any involvements with social services so are somewhat in the dark with regards to this. What questions will be asked and what will be checked? We havent really any concerns regarding this but obviously are a little nervous as being 'assessed' doesnt really sound too pleasant!
I cannot give any further details as the case is very involved and includes legal/criminal proceedings which have been concluded against the mother so Im asking in a more general context. The childs guardian and her local social services team are happy for us to be assessed and have her placed with us should it be 'positive' and we are due to return to court in April for the results of the assessment and final decision over whether the child in question will be placed with us.
We do live a substantial distance away from any other relative of the child so contact problems should not arise and we have been informed that all other parties involved would only ever have 'annual letter box' contact.
Thankyou for any information or advice.

[Collaborate]

Relax. If you're normal (don't have to be perfect) you should fit the bill. they're not out to trick you. In fact they'd much rather not have to look after a child.

[Pinguu]

My only concern is my health record, I suffer from anxiety - which isnt medically treated but is obviously on my notes etc - Im worried this will result in a negative assessment and therefore ruin the chances of her coming to us, i would be devestated if it turned out my health past could ruin a childs future prospects.

[Darnley]

Just be honest with the social worker about your anxiety issues. Their only concern is your ability to love and care for this child safely, and to offer her a stable, warm and loving home.
As Collaborate says, they will want the child with her own family rather than remaining in foster care.
I am sure you will be fine and soon welcoming her into your family and home.

[Pinguu]

Thankyou I really hope so. Im hoping too that because she is older it will be less of a problem that we have a 19 month old and a baby due in 2 weeks (both also girls) If our assessment is positive then it would be approx 6 months before she came here anyway which gives plenty of time for newborn to settle etc also. And we have no issues with space/schools/finances etc I also am a psychology undergrad through the open university so study from home so i think that will go in my favor as i am studying some child psychology too. I think im just stressing because we are the only chance she has got of having a 'normal' life/future and its such a tense time waiting for things to happen.

[olgaga]

Try not to get stressed about this OP. If you are about to give birth it's a difficult time for you anyway - it's a lot to take on, and it sounds like you're managing really well. Reading your post, you seem a very thoughtful and conscientious person. The assessors will probably be mightily relieved and delighted to meet you!

Try to relax, I'm sure it will go well. You have done the right thing coming here, it's a good place to share your concerns.

[Pinguu]

Thankyou, that is very kind of you. Obviously at the end of the day the social workers are professionals and if the assessment is negative for any reason than Im sure its for good reason. I just hope for the best and that we are deemed positive.

[olgaga]

Do come back if you feel anxious about this. Hold on to these thoughts:

1. Your DH is her father.
   
2. Everyone has mental or physical ups and downs at different points in their life, parents included.
   
3. As a family you have a great deal to offer this child.
   

I hope it doesn't drag on too long as the waiting will be difficult - but as you say, it'll give you a chance to get settled with your newborn.

Very best of luck to you.

[Pinguu]

Thankyou very much for your help, you have put my mind at ease.

[George4968]

Hi. I too am to undertake a viability assessment and am really concerned that my health will go against me. Will they check medical records?
I have fibromyalgia chronic fatigue syndrome arthritis and anorexia. I would line heartbroken if my grandson could not live with me

[Hoppinggreen]

Good Luck OP, sounds like you will be lovely family for her.


George how old is your grandson? Will you have help with him if he’s young? Sorry but with those health issues a baby/toddler will be really hard

[AnnonEssex]

Hi I have similar suiation to you on viability with bad health cancer although I’m having treatment and expected to make a full recovery. Did you pass assessment?