Fled dv to a refuge in Nov, then went for a visit to a friends in Jan and couldnt return as my mum told my ex everything out of anger. In limbo for a while, then went back to another refuge while sorting a house to rent. Ex rang (broke bail) and I gave in and let him have kids to visit "while i got my house sorted". A few days later he then refused to let me have them back, unless i moved near him. I drove down asap (6 hour drive) but could not be housed at all because I became homless through my own actions. Ex making more and more criteria I have to meet before i am allowed them back (i was breastfeeding youngest), he applied for temp cust (while I meet his standards) , hearing is on 6th and i have just instructed my solicitor to attend now i am seeing the light (ex told me it wasnt going to go through,but has changed his tune now his bail was lifted today and now gets legal aid as he has the boys)
I just want my boys back, can this happen at exs temp cust hearing? is it likely? He says I just dumped them there... It's a complete mess, he wont even give our tenants notice so I can live back in the home (he is at his mums)...
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fleeingdv · 01/03/2012 19:04
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