Hi there,been separated 2yrs,ex has had sporadic contact with kids.Let them down many times.only ever wanted few hrs on a Sunday.Not seen kids since July.Abusive voicemails led to arrest in july ,court appearance and warning from PF.Hasnt replied to any Sols letter re contact since then.Got several texts and phonecalls yesterday from his gf 22yo,he is 42,telling me i am cruel let him talk to his kids,he is heartbroken.I replied please do not contact me again,this is none of your business,he can contact my sol as suggested in the letters.He hasnt replied to any letters sent in 2011.He has history of cannabis abuse,alcoholism and dv.I always wanted my kids to see their father but i no longer know if they would be safe.What happens next if he gets in touch with my Sol ?He has never stuck to regular contact in 2 yrs .Kids are 5&6.If he takes me to court and doesnt stick to the conditions,does this go against him.Kids are settled just now .
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