I have just recd this late Christmas pressie from the Land Registry in Wales (bizarre as we are in London). My deadbeat estranged DH has registered this and I am not sure what to do really. Quick background: my property and I always paid for everything (bills/Mortgage) , my mother has a substantial charge on it. He was abusive and never contributed, left voluntarily and suitably accommodated back in his home country since July of which I have evidence.
Also have evidence that he acknowledges that I was the primary carer (ha ha, ONLY carer of Dcs would be more appropriate actually). Dcs can't stand him , don't want contact but solicitor has negotiated a phone-call a week (against WA advice) one was badly physically abused by him which is what ended the marriage.
I think his intentions may have been fraudulent for quite some time as his mother fleeced his father in much the same way and always hated me and was trying to encourage him to walk out even though I was extremely tolerant of the feckless wastrel against my better judgment. He was seeking out property in his country - presumably intending it to be financed by my money. I have applied for divorce but given his crap behaviour and non-contribution, we did not think that he would have the audacity to stoop this low.
There have been so many emails from the moment we separated which talk about "our house, not your house" which we need to sell asap (I have no intention of moving and as far as I can see, I would not have to even in a weaker co-dependent position).
There was also the friendly advice email "Don't bother with solicitors, they'll squander our DCs future inheritance, just sell up and give me half". What an utter, utter bastard. My children were born in this house and love it (none more so than my DS with SNs who relishes the security if=t affords to us).
If he had paid half, quarter, ANYTHING than fair enough but this is an abuser who has been condemned by SS, Police etc. I could explode and need to know whether I can have this ludicrous right removed and if so how?
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petersham · 30/12/2011 14:04
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