AM in a sticky divorce situation. Have been in relationship with DH for 12 years emotional verbal abuse unreasonable behaviour, cannabis = relationship breakdown. We have three DC. Instructed solicitor in divorce proceedings legal aid required have no money or income sahm. DH said he would never divorce or leave house so divorce was to go to court. DH now got legal advice on receipt of draft divorce petition. Told me I could have divorce if I dropped all reference to cannabis and went for mediation. Spoke to solicitor who said I had enough grounds with mention of cannabis so should mediate for sake of children. TOld DH this afternoon immediate reaction he had failed his bike test today because he cant concentrate on anything he cant cope he is having anger management and counselling and divorce is too much so I should hold off. He will mediate but when he is ready. I said no i would sort out mediation tomorrow as he had offered amicable divorce if no cannabis involved. He now says I am uncompassionate and i get angry and he will say all of this in his divorce petition. I have emailed solicitor tonight with all of this saying I no longer want to mediate and want to go to court but she said earlier in the day that if mediation was on the table and i did not accept i would lose public funding? Does this mean i would lose legal aid i dont know. I dont want to mediate with this man and I do want to use cannabis in the petition because i have tried to compromise and it has got me nowhere, He says he will go to doctor to get some sort of order to delay divorce, can he do this is this because without the mention of cannabis he can claim some sort of mental abuse.... what should i do
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