DH left 2 weeks ago after telling me that he doesnt love me anymore. Since he has gone Ive since found out he has been using internet dating websites for the last year, so no chance of reconciliation. We have 15m old DD. Also we have a joint mortgage for our house, for which we are just coming up to the end of our fixed period.
I always thought Id want to leave the house if DH left as its the marital home, and without a marriage there was no point being here, however im starting to realise that its DDs home and all she knows. I cant afford to take the property by myself. DD and I are due to move out on the 26th Oct and he will then move back in. I keep getting told by friends/family that I shouldnt leave, that I should be getting him to pay the mortgage as its DDs home. Is that even possible?
I do have a solicitor but he doesnt have a legal aid spot for me till November, and I will have potentially left by then. Im frightened that if I do leave and DD is actually entitled to stay in her house with him paying for the mortgage that it will be too late for me come back to the house, iyswim?
Anybody able to shed some light on this one?
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Should we be leaving the family home after DH left?
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Ladylou83 · 02/10/2011 09:05
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