Hi,
Need some help please. My company is doing a restructuring. They want me to either move to a different office or take a lesser job and pay cut.
I cant afford a pay cut, so am looking at relocating. It would be 2.5 hours (150miles) from where I live now. Ive thought long and hard about it, and I know Ex will not agree. Are court likely to give me permission to move if i ask?
Other factors (not sure if relevant)
- I nearly suffered repossession earlier in the year, so if made redundant, or take pay cut I can basically wave goodbye to my house.
- I am suffering heavily from anxiety and receiving treatment.
- My mum and dad (who currently do the majority of my childcare whilst I work) are willing to relocate with me
- Ex is currently not having contact with the kids, but this is about to restart up again via CAFCASS supervising at contact centre
- Oldest DCs father is supportive of the move.
- It would likely not happen until next year (possibly april) so hopefully contact would have moved on a bit by then. I would be proposing working towards alternate weekends. Ex to collect from me and I to collect back from him. Until he was having overnights, I would propose that 1 visit he comes to the new place, and the other I drive them to him and then drive them back with me.
- Schools are just as good as the 1 DCs at currently.
- I would ideally (if mortgage company) let me rent my house out and rent somewhere at the new location.
Thanks