a bit of background .. DH and Ex girlfriend joint owned ( mortgaged) a flat , they used to pay mortgage jointly then split up 3 years ago , he lived in flat and paid mortgage for a year , due to job changes she then moved in (he moved out obviously!) and took over paying mortgage, it was decided to keep in joint names as otherwise the changing of the mortgage would mean the payments would go up.
Discussions started last year about sorting it out and nothing got much further than getting flat valued and Ex saying she wasn't willing to pay DH out etc etc
Then two months ago DH get solicitors letter saying its going to court , he was away with work abroad as usual and 'decided' in his 'head in the sand ' way that if she wanted to get the court to decide then so be it, completed the acknowledgment paperwork didn't contest anything, didn't seek legal advice and then went back out on a 6 week work tour abroad as normal.
Today received court documents saying property & mortgage will be signed over to Ex ( as expected) BUT that DH (as he has made 'no attempt to resolve the situation') is liable for all costs that are 'summarily' £3900 !!!
DH away until end of month, is back for a long weekend (bank holiday) then away again for 6 weeks ..can he contest this ? and if so can he do so without physically being in the country ??? Can I go to a solicitor eventhough it isn't my name on documents etc
We can't afford to pay this ...can the court force us to pay in a lump sum/have to sell car etc etc ..don't know how we will manage at all and VERY VERY angry at DH
any advice very welcome , have emailed DH (time difference) but do not trust him to handle this at all and will just ignore it hoping it will go away ..so its down to me to kick his ass ..please help
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