My husband and I have been married 3 years, we have 2 boys -aged 2 and 6 months. My husband has always been a heavy drinker and it has always caused problems between us but recently it really has got out of control and I can no longer trust him with the children or bear to be in the same house as him. I had an affair as result of his drinking early in our our marriage and he thinks because of this i have no chance of divorcing him... as i was the adulterer.
Our house is in both our names but he paid the 25% deposit and I pay the mortgage and all monthly bills- He says if I want to leave I have to go as it is 'his house'and I have to leave the children too. - Over my dead body!
If I move out I cannot afford to rent anywhere as already paying almost all my salary on the house, also if the children are with me (which they will be!) why should they be frightened and disrupted?
What are my rights? Can I force him to sell? Can I divorce him on grounds of unreasonable behaviour ?
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AmberLilly · 22/12/2010 18:26
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