Am feeling and unsure of my next move. we talked some months ago about discussing it when ds2 starts school next yr, but tonight he just came out with "i dont wont any more". Im shocked as he had previously said about discussing it next yr. i was going to apply for uni for 2011, but told him recently that i dont want to because if i do, it'll take me 3 - 4/12yrs to qualify, plus a yr or two to build skills, by which time Ill be about 34. before ds1, we had all manner of problems, 4mc, PCOS...Im worried that if i did that it may prove too late I wouldnt be having any more children, but not by choice.
now by saying this hes really put a spanner in the works, my heads all over the place and Im not sure we will survive as a couple if this is his view. I would really love 3, possibly(big possibly) 4, but no more than that, but not 2.
ahh gawd, im not thinking logically and Im devestated
has anyone been in the same position?
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InaSpin · 09/07/2009 23:19
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