Just wondered...? Do you sometimes think what it would be like if hadnt gone for 3rd/4th/5th or 6th.?
I always wanted 4... found 3 under 3 very demanding. Had pnd for first time after 3rd and look a long time wrestling with my desire for a 4th and the possibility of inflicting pnd on my (evern bigger) family after another birth.
But...I went for it, had pnd, but dealt with it quite well...only "issue" I have is that there is nearly a 5 yr gap between 3 and 4...so holiday, days out planning etc is cutailed by her needs for the time being however she is delightful might have been another story if she was anything like my 3rd..! I have really enjoyed her babyhood as I have had the time to enjoy her (despite pnd)... bit more work with 4...but she has brought so mch joy to our family...all of the children adore her and it has been wonderful seeing their caring sides...whereas the first 3 demonstrate this less to each other as they are so close in age.
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mulranno · 03/06/2009 14:57
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