Hi all,
Dh and i have been thinking about what would happen to our children if we were both to die in an accident or something.
We cant think of anyone who could cope / would want to cope with 4 (poss 5/6) kids.
Mum says she would of course do it, but my Dad has MS, and when she has them to stay the night (once every school holiday - God bless my ma!), she does not seem to cope terribly well and my Dad will only get worse.
I dont trust anyone else, except for a cousin who has 3 children herself, and 2 of my very best friends, but my children dont know them as one lives in Ireland (we have known each other since we were born though - oour parents were friends), and another who also lives a good 8 hours away, and i would want them to stay connected to the extended family.
It also seems a bit cheeky to ask anyone - would you have ALL of our children should we die!
DH family are totally no-go for us.
What have you all done. I am really worried about this (although i am not planning to drop any time soon )
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tummytickler · 25/05/2009 20:31
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