My brother is getting married later this year and has rung to find out whether my 3 boys really 'want' to go to his wedding. He wants to invite my daughter as 'she would be devastated not to be invited'.
Up to now I've always been really fond of my little brother and I suppose those feelings will return, but I don't know what to do. I have always said that he must invite whoever he wants but I can't condone splitting my children and saying to one she is invited but to the others they are not.
I am inclined to say that we will none of us go but I really don't want to upset him and I am delighted about this wedding. DH has suggested that he stays at home to look after the boys, because all the other possible babysitters will be at the wedding. I can't really say I will enjoy it without my family.
I know that I have lots of children and I know it is entirely up to those getting married who they invite, but how do I tell my boys that their uncle in effect doesn't want them there, but is keen to invite their sister. I've gone from looking forward to a family occasion to feeling very sad.
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Wedding invitation dilemma - one child invited but not others
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struwellpeter · 13/05/2009 12:00
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